The Part Where I Talk About Why I Went Public About My Abusive Marriage
It has been a month and a half since I "outed" myself as a domestic abuse survivor. (To reread that post click here .) At that time I finally wrote (admitted) that maybe just maybe the reasons behind my divorce were a little bit bigger than anyone quite realized... And I have been blown away by the response from those in my community (both the social media one, and the one that physically surrounds me daily). And what I have learned is that the world isn't as scary as I imagined it would be with that information. For the last few years I saw myself as someone who gingerly peeked over my own little private fence and occasionally talked to people that passed by that I deemed "trustworthy" about my marriage. (In very hushed tones of course.) I would discreetly talk about some of the things that led to my divorce, always under the strictest of confidences, but it was always vague, always giving the other party involved the benefit of the doubt, and for me, always...